You feel successful in so many areas of your life - career growth, personal growth, spiritual growth - but when it comes to your marriage, you feel anything but.
You’re afraid that nothing will change and you’ll spend the rest of your relationship falling into the same fights, debates over and over, or worse, running out of energy and no longer trying anything at all.
You married your soulmate, but you live more like roommates.
When you try to fix things, you end up falling back on unhelpful habits that you picked up long ago, from previous relationships or by watching your caregivers.
You’re disappointed when the tips and tricks from books or podcasts never really address your specific circumstances.
You tried everything from yelling, shutting down, trying to fix yourself, or trying to fix your partner, but nothing seems to work. You find yourself relying on your kids or career to feel the validation that you’re not getting in your relationship.
You just want more fun, connection, and some romance in your relationship.
You can create more joy in your marriage.
Stable Misery® doesn’t have to be your status quo
Feel closer to your partner and have the tools to deal when you don’t
Understand what triggers you - and what to do about them when they are activated. You have go-to strategies that you remember when you need them the most.
Become who you know you can be, even when those crazy-making moments arise
Demystify how patterns from your past are impacting your partnership, so you can stop feeling broken, and design new habits you can use to navigate tough moments with confidence.
Reignite your connection and reconnect to what brought you and your partner together.
Your conversations feel effortless and involve more than just your kids and career. You enjoy being around your partner and know that they enjoy you too.
This isn't just a dream. It can be your reality. I can help.
Hi, I’m Lynyetta! As a psychologist and family coach, I help high-achieving couples break free from Stable Misery so they can feel as much connection & confidence in their marriage as they do in other areas of their life.
Together, we calm the inner chaos, form a clear actionable vision for their relationship, & make a practical plan to get there, so you can stay connected, grow closer, & enjoy the idea of spending the next 70 years together.
Imagine having a Psychologist and Family Coach to listen to you, your story, and your concerns while providing support, strategies and practices that are unique to you and your relationship.
Together We Can Create More
Harmony in Your Home
Your relationship is like no other, and your approach to strengthening it, needs to be unique too. Together, we will co-create an experience that meets your specific needs, desires, and challenges. This ensures that your experience is focused and effective #NoCookieCutters.
Any tools you use must take you beyond temporary fixes. With 20+ years of experience, I know what works. I’ll help you strategically integrate tools from my proven toolkit, so you can re-gain & maintain a harmonious and loving relationship #NoTimeSuckingBusywork.
Marriage happens outside of sessions. Having access to support and guidance when you need it is key. During our work together you can send me messages with your wins and challenges. I’ll respond with my thoughts and practical guidance. You are not alone in this process #IGotYou.
“If you told me that in less than 3-months, my wife and I would have transformed as much as we have and been as connected as we are, I would have laughed in your face.
Dr. Willis is a marriage magician.”
– Nick N.
“My husband & I were on the verge of separation. We thought we tried everything. Now we’re connecting like never before. I’ve fallen in love all over again. I’ve worked with a lot of professionals and Dr. Willis is like no other. Her guidance, support, & powerful ability to help us see & create the relationship we want, literally saved our marriage.”
– Jenn M.
Personal Harmony Map
You must start with a clear plan! Using my proprietary planning process, we’ll get crystal clear on what’s not working & what you need instead (hint: It’s seldom what you think). You’ll walk away with your personalized plan for our time together & clear next steps that will get your started.
Harmonized Habits Sessions
Transformed habits, transform relationships! We'll explore the experiences, patterns, & beliefs that keep you both stuck. Through experiments designed to shift unhelpful habits, you'll create a relationship driven by connection, self-awareness, & understanding.